Your meaning matters
How do you react when crises happen in your life? Why are especially crises your biggest blessing to be grateful for?
Now, you are going to think I’m strange but when I face challenges and have problems I know it is for a reason
I see my crises as blessings!!
Your emotions matter
Of course, there is a natural reaction of all kinds emotion – anger, sadness, upset, hurt.
Of course, you are going to feel certain way and you should, you are human being full of emotions and your feelings matter!
It’s very difficult to see crises at the moment of happening as our blessings. But truth is especially these “hard, harsh moments” determines what kind of person we become.
I know it’s probably the last thing you want to hear especially when are going through rough time. But once you let yourself feel, when you get out all your emotions, you can look at the situation from a different angle.
Unexpected knocked down
I have been down more than once in my life and looking back each of those experiences has made me a stronger, better person. Each time I have been through a difficult time I have looked back later and realised that the difficulties were actually a blessing; the experiences had helped me mature and grow.
When next faced with similar decisions I was able to make better choices which worked towards my success. Everyone goes through difficulties and have various crises but it isn‘t the things that have happened to us – it’s how we react and deal with them.
Jim Rohn said: “Don’t wish it was easier wish you were better. Don’t wish for fewer problems wish for more skills. Don’t wish for less challenge wish for more wisdom”
Gratitude is the key to your heart
I have learnt to be grateful for everything that comes my way because it is either a good thing or it is a lesson and opportunity to learn. I am most grateful to my parents who taught me so many lessons and gave me so much.
Especially they taught me my strong beliefs – to believe in good, to believe in people, to believe in helping others, to believe that the world can be a perfect place where everyone helps each other.
“Maybe in a different life or on a different planet!“ you may think. I know what a naive person I must have been back then but I was growing up in a loving family and with big dreams in my head – or I just wanted to see it that way.
Harsh reality
Imagine me as an 18-year old, living in a small town heading out to the world with almost nothing just my big dreams.
The reality I encountered was “just a bit“ different to what my naive imagination had envisioned and a total shock to me -it was like a bucket of ice water I can tell you!
I was young and very naive and I had to grow up very quickly to survive. I needed to be tough and stand up for myself to be heard and I went through some rough times while I was learning how to navigate life out here in the world.
The perfect world starts with me
My illusions and dreams had taken a huge knock and it had left me feeling quite angry – angry at myself for being so naive and even angry with my parents for sheltering me from the “real“ world.
Despite the many hard knocks and bumps that were life lessons I couldn‘t stop my core belief that a perfect world could exist – the only catch was I would have to learn how to create it myself! Because it all starts with you!
It al starts with an open heart
I had to learn and start with myself – I knew that with the process of the domino effect if I became a better person I could inspire others and show them how to become better people too.
I am so grateful for all crises which lead me to become the person I am now but mostly I am grateful to my parents who planted those seeds inside of me. Only by becoming who I truly am and doing what I believe in- by being my best! Crises are blessing.
This is my big “Thank You“ to my parents.
Thanks to my crises which has turned out to be my biggest blessings I am grateful for.
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