Good receiver
We have all heard more than once that in order to receive we first need to give. Of course, it works the same way in the universe too.
But have you ever heard that you also need to be a good receiver in order to receive more? Yes, you have read that right – you need to know HOW to receive in order to receive even more!
How to receive
When I heard this for the first time I had no idea what the heck it meant exactly. Of course, I am grateful and polite when being given something and always say “ Thank you“ so what exactly is meant by “you need to know HOW to receive in order to receive even more“? Let me give you an example:
I have lived in London for the past two years. I love London – it’s an amazing, vibrant, multicultural city with plenty of opportunities.
Two sides of each city
Unfortunately, as with many large cities, it can also be a harsh city, full of loneliness especially when you have no family or friends close by. People are always so busy – they rarely talk to strangers, always in a hurry, just rushing everywhere and eating on the go.
One of my goals since starting to learn the new techniques on my transformational journey is to meet interesting people and make new friends. I had started to practice my visualization, affirmations and so on but one day not long after beginning the techniques, something odd happened…
People come and go but…
People come and go and you probably never see them again but this time it was different. I met a really nice couple who were unusually friendly (for London) from the beginning.
Don‘t worry, they didn‘t want money from me ????. I’m just not used to such “ friendly behavior“ anymore (I’m becoming a real Londoner!) so I was not very friendly to them in return. I wasn’t rude but I was polite if somewhat distant… they were extremely friendly in comparison to others and this made me a little suspicious and cautious at the beginning.
There is no catch
“So what‘s the catch?“ I wondered “How much do you want?“ – but there was no catch! There was just a sincere interest in ME – ME as a person.
As we were talking I found out we have so many things in common, even the same sense of the humor ????. They literally made my day and after they left I couldn‘t stop thinking about them for some reason.
Be careful what you wish for
Then it clicked… I had a “light-bulb“ moment – the light had come on! What had I wished for? What had I asked for? To meet interesting people and make new friends and what happened?
A friendly couple just bumped into me.“ You gotta do something!“ I said to myself: So I did. The next time when I saw them, I was so happy to see them and I let them know this by removing the suspicion and guard I had put up and returning their friendliness.
Now this couple are my very good friends and I learned to remember that when I wish for something, the Universe will answer – I just need to remember what I wished and asked for! Happy ending ????.
One penny test
Are you still wondering why am I telling you this story? Ok, let me use another, more straightforward example:
Would you like to have more money? What do you usually do when you find a penny lying on the floor? 
- Do you pick it up with enthusiasm because “all day long you will have good luck“
- Do you think “I am not so poor that I need to pick up ONE penny! I am too busy: I don’t have time to pick up one penny – it’s not even enough to buy anything. PLEASE!“
What vibrancy do you send out?
If you are likely to answer 2, I can tell you right now that you definitely need to learn how to receive! Why?
Because of the vibrancy – signals you are giving to the universe, your message is vibrating out there! Imagine your goal is to have more money. How on earth are you supposed to appreciate a larger amount if you can’t appreciate one penny!
The amount is not important – it‘s like the universe is giving you a present and you are saying “Are you joking?“ – If you think one penny is a joke then the joke is on you! If you are not grateful for the little things you are not ready for big things! It’s as simple and as basic as that and it works for everything.
Little things make big difference
It was the same with my friends. If I had not let go of the unfounded suspicions I had about those friendly strangers I probably would never have found out what amazing people they are.
Little things make such a big difference. Learn to be a good giver and a GREAT RECEIVER!
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